War on Christmas

“Teach respect for other people’s faiths and end the obsessive and dangerous attempt to please everyone by being perfectly politically correct by rallying to stop the use of the word Christmas ”, says Patrick Wanis, a Human Behavior Expert, therapist, life coach and author of “Finding God -Spiritual strategies to help you find happiness, fulfillment and inner peace.”

“Yes, it is “Christmas” -the official holiday. First the name does not cause changes in people’s behavior and will not coerce people into becoming Christian. That concept would be akin to saying that on Martin Luther King day we will all change skin color. Coercion does not originate from a title, it originates from threats, intimidation and acts that inspire fear in people. A name in and of itself has no power. Second, if we are to change the names of all religious celebrations of holidays in order not to offend or coerce anyone into conversion, should we then rename Hanukah, Yom Kippur or Ramadan? If we are to change the name of the Christmas tree, should we then rename the Jewish Menorah to Candelabra?”

“We would better serve our children and citizens by teaching respect for other people’s faiths by honoring the titles and names given to those events or sacred days.”

Cheating is OK – Goldie Hawn

Hollywood Star Goldie Hawn says men are wired to cheat and that’s OK with her. Goldie says it’s a fallacy to believe you can be with only one person your entire life, and says, to stay happy, she ignores whatever her partner of 22 years Kurt Russel does.

Can men be faithful and should women allow their men to sow wild oats whenever and wherever? “Faithfulness is a choice”, says Patrick Wanis, Hypnotherapist, Human Behavior Expert,  Celebrity Life Coach and author of upcoming book, “How to tell if your partner is cheating.” Patrick says it is true men can distinguish between sex and love but regardless of testosterone levels, men have the ability to choose to be faithful as do women. Patrick also says Goldie’s comments stem from her self-admitted low self-esteem and former depression.

Patrick is the perfect expert to discuss and answer audience questions on:

• Are men neurologically wired to cheat?
• How the human reptilian brain affects libido
• Why do men cheat?
• Marriage, men and the four-year sexual itch
• Can you be with one person your entire life?
• Why women put up with men who cheat
• Why it’s unhealthy to put up with men who cheat
• Aren’t women also cheating?

If you want to create great TV or radio and have these questions answered by an intelligent, controversial & insightful expert with loads of personality, and an Australian accent, then Patrick Wanis is your expert.

Originally from  Australia, Patrick Wanis is an expert in body language, relationships and persuasion. He is an international speaker, certified therapist, Neuro-Linguistic Programming practitioner and hypnotherapist with degrees in communication, human behavior and journalism. He has appeared on television and radio and teaches around the world.  Patrick has authored: “How to Get Over It –Breakups, Betrayals and Rejection”; “Soul Mates”, and; “What a Woman Wants – And how to Give it to Her” His newest book, How to Read Anyone and tell if your Man is Cheating on You” will be released later this year. VH1 will feature Patrick working with and coaching Hulk Hogan this Summer.www.patrickwanis.com

The truth about men and dogs

“Comparing dogs with men or humans is an insult to the intelligence of women, period”, says Human Behavior and Relationship Expert and Author, Patrick Wanis (Relationship Expert for Date.com, Matchmaker.com and American Media Mini Mags and booklets.)

In her book, Everything I Know About Men I Learnt From My Dog , British socialite and ex-model, Clare Staples, says men and canines are synonymous: “men and dogs have the same urges and natural instincts.” Staples sets out to offer “secrets and information on how to make relationships work”, claiming that men can be trained like dogs. Staples misses the mark. She suggests ignoring your man.  If you ignore your man, how will you expect him not to ignore you? Staples also says to teach your man to give so he can get back. Wanis believes that this creates the opposite result and only encourages men to be selfish, and conditional.

Wanis insists there are no similarities between a woman’s relationship with a dog and a woman’s relationship with a man:

• Do you and your dog have sex or get intimate?
• Do you discuss your problems with your dog?
• Does your dog provide for you or do you provide for your dog?
• Does your dog help raise your children?
• Does your dog look after you or offer you emotional or financial security?
• Does your dog stimulate you intellectually?
• Do you and your dog share your innermost fears and fantasies?
• When you are sick, will your dog physically care for you?

As iterated in his book, Soul Mates, Wanis explains there are 5 key elements to a relationship:

1. Friendship
2. Companionship
3. Sex
4. Love
5. Intimacy.

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“How can you have those 5 with a dog? How would a dog help you to express your individuality and identity? What about mutual concern, joint growth, open communication, and supporting each other? How would a dog help you to grow emotionally or become self-actualized? Should we also treat our sons as dogs?”

Wanis believes that dogs do not have the power of choice; humans do. Choosing to believe that men are like dogs only serves to insult women’s intelligence and leave them unfulfilled, unsatisfied and single.  He says women would be better served to find equality in relationships rather than trying to master their mate, like a dog.