As human beings we all have needs. Our basic needs for survival are food, water and shelter. However, our emotional needs are vast, and vary according to our personality, character, upbringing and insecurities. Our basic emotional needs are validation, significance, reassurance and approval, sense of belonging, acceptance and love. In other words, we all need to be needed and want to feel important, loved and accepted. We also have certain physical needs such as touch, affection and intimacy. Other physical needs are material such as Continue reading “Are You High-maintenance? The Quiz” »
Archive for April, 2007
Are You High-maintenance? The Quiz
Monday, April 30th, 2007
Is it cheating?
Thursday, April 26th, 2007Is cheating kissing or sleeping with someone? What are the boundaries? And is cheating only physical or can there also be, “emotional cheating”?
In the 2003 motion picture, Anger Management, Jack Nicholson plays Dr. Buddy Rydell who is assigned to help Dave Buznik (Adam Sandler) control his anger. In one scene, Nicholson tries to tempt Sandler into hitting-on a girl at a bar. Sandler who already has a girlfriend responds with “Flirting is cheating’s first cousin, Buddy!” But is it? What constitutes cheating? Human Behavior & Relationship Expert and author of “Get the man you want!”, Patrick Wanis has compiled a quiz on cheating. Take the quiz and then compare your answers with Wanis’ response below. Continue reading “Is it cheating?” »
Are you worthy?
Wednesday, April 25th, 2007I would like to talk about the most important element and factor to success in life: what you believe about you and your self-worth. We get only what we believe we subconsciously deserve and no more. When we get more than we believe we deserve, we will sabotage it. And we do this in every area of our life – including finances and relationships. In the Showtime documentary, Reversal of Fortune, a homeless man was suddenly given $100,000 but he quickly squandered the money. It was as if he was trying to lose or get rid of the money. He had subconscious blocks about what he believed he deserved in life. Do you have a friend or know of someone who when she finds herself in a relationship and is treated well, she sabotages it or tries to push the man away? Why? Continue reading “Are you worthy?” »
Woman misdiagnosed conquers depression & devastating effects of medication
Wednesday, April 25th, 2007For eight years, Cathy Valone suffered from anxiety, insomnia, nausea, a sense of doom, lack of motivation, endless crying and pain. “I didn’t want to live anymore.”
After recovering Cathy now wants to share her story “because I don’t want anyone to endure what I have or to feel so much pain.”
It all began when Cathy, 41 a mother or two children, Continue reading “Woman misdiagnosed conquers depression & devastating effects of medication” »
The Secret Part II
Thursday, April 19th, 2007In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk more about one of the key elements missing from the bestseller book and DVD, The Secret – one of the key missing elements for you to truly get what you want.
It is a paradox that “to get what you want you must also give.” Too many people think only in terms of taking but not contributing. There is a joke that says that Hollywood people Continue reading “The Secret Part II” »
Oprah & The Secret
Wednesday, April 18th, 2007I would like to talk about the bestseller book and DVD, The Secret and what they left out – the missing elements for you to truly get what you want.
The Secret is based around The Law of Attraction – you get more of what you focus on. The Secret teaches you to ask, visualize and receive: Decide what you want, visualize it, feel the emotions of getting it and you’ll get it. Continue reading “Oprah & The Secret” »
The beauty in you
Tuesday, April 17th, 2007I would like to talk about Valentine’s Day and share with you my suggestion for the best gift that you can give to the person you love – and it doesn’t cost anything. First, let me say that whenever giving gifts think about what brings happiness to the other person and not what you would like to give them or have them wearing or doing something just to please you.
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Victims never succeed
Monday, April 16th, 2007I would like to talk about victims. First, I invite you to view new TV appearances on my website including “Find love fast” in which I offer powerful advice and strategies.
Now, let’s talk about victims. Continue reading “Victims never succeed” »
Positive attention
Sunday, April 15th, 2007I would like to talk about positive attention.
A good friend of mine in her early thirties was diagnosed with breast cancer. The news was obviously devastating to her and her family but this woman was strong. She decided she was going to conquer the cancer. Amongst her health regimen, I gave her a few simple visualization exercises to perform daily. She would imagine a troop of soldiers going into the affected area and gently rounding up and removing the cancerous cells and then throwing them down a pipe and out of her body. Her strength and resolve to get better succeeded. She went into remission and Continue reading “Positive attention” »
Stopping the victim game
Saturday, April 14th, 2007I would like to answer the overwhelming response and requests for more insights into my last newsletter about victims.
First, I invite you to view new radio interviews, photos and TV appearances on my website just posted.
One of the key points of my last newsletter is that to be successful and happy, you must take responsibility for who you are, your actions and your choices. Let me use an example. For the first time in her life, Anna was in a wonderful relationship whereby she said had never before been treated so well by a man. Her boyfriend loved, encouraged and supported her physically, mentally and emotionally, expressing patience, kindness, compassion and devotion. But the better her boyfriend treated her, the worse Anna treated him. She would take out her emotions on him, act cruelly and blame him for her behavior. “It’s your fault that I treat you like crap, because you let me,” Anna told him. “But I have pointed out to you so many times Continue reading “Stopping the victim game” »
