Archive for August, 2007

Stop Self-Sabotage

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about self-sabotage, destructive behavior and how to change it.

 

First a quick update:  

·         I will be taping the Montel show September 12 in NY on the topic of angry men. I will alert you of the broadcast date soon

·         If you missed out on last week’s: “The Secret to Get What You Want” phone seminar, we recorded it and you can now listen to it anytime at http://patrickwanis.com/getwhatyouwantseminar  

·         I am presenting a phone seminar for Peak Potentials Training Tuesday September 25 on “The Secret to Get What You Truly Deserve.” More details in the upcoming weeks.

·         I gave a controversial radio interview to Sally Jessy Raphael for her new syndicated radio show speaking about Macy Gray and her live song and comments that “Woman is the nigger of the world.”  Listen to it at http://patrickwanis.com/RadioInterviews.asp

·         My audio book: “Get What You Want” is now available on Amazon.com and I would greatly appreciate if you have used this product to add your testimonial or review at http://www.amazon.com/Get-What-Want-Patrick-Wanis/dp/0977919242/ref=sr_1_3/002-4751582-9006419?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1188322151&sr=8-3  

 

Now let’s talk about more about sabotage, destructive behavior and how to change it.

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Michael Vick and The O.J. Effect

Friday, August 24th, 2007

Michael Vick is no different from O.J Simpson.  

“When Michael Vick today admitted he had killed dogs that didn’t perform well, he also engaged the O.J Effect  -killing his career and sabotaging his life”, according to Celebrity Life Coach and Author Patrick Wanis.  

“Despite the money, success, power, fame and toys, Michael Vick simply doesn’t believe he deserves any of it -just like OJ who destroyed his life. When one doesn’t believe he or she deserves the success he or she will push it away or sabotage it: Studies show that almost all lottery winners lose their winnings in 2-3 years. Evelyn Adams, won the

New Jersey lottery not just once, but twice (1985, 1986), to the tune of $5.4 million but today she lives in a trailer! Is Vick any different?” 

Wanis says “This is what I call The Law of Deservedness which says you will only get what you subconsciously believe you deserve and no more –otherwise you will just destroy it.” 

Originally from

Australia, Patrick Wanis, is a Celebrity Life-Coach, Author and an Expert in Human Behavior and Relationships. He is a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Clinical Hypnotherapist with a PhD in Health Psychology in 2007. Wanis is a regular contributor to major news outlets -FOX News, MSNBC, etc. Wanis coaches and works with various celebrities. WGN Chicago and Syndicated TV show, “The Daily Buzz” anointed him “The Woman Expert” and FOX News pronounced him ”A voice for women.” Over four million people have read Wanis’ books in English and Spanish. http://www.patrickwanis.com

Destructive behavior and The secret to get what you want

Monday, August 20th, 2007

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about self-destructive behavior and give you the details of my gift to you -my phone seminar: “The Secret to Get What You Want! 

Tomorrow night August 21, I am presenting my phone seminar at 9 PM

New York time. The phone seminar is a gift – no cost. You just pay the cost of a long-distance call.  Get on the call early as places may be limited.  

So let me ask you: Will you be stopped or will nothing stop you?
Do you know what you want?
Have you tried almost everything and still can’t get what you want?  

In my phone seminar, I will reveal the true formula to success, happiness, riches and wealth…I will reveal the three key elements missing from The Secret and the one law that is so powerful, it can neutralize The Law of Attraction, and lead to misery and self-sabotage.If you can grasp the powerful principles of success I outline then you, too, can get what you want, hold onto it and enjoy it!  

Now let’s talk about destructive behavior and from where it comes.  (more…)

Macy Gray uses the N word

Wednesday, August 15th, 2007

“Macy Gray kicked off her month-long US tour last night by shocking her fans when she closed the concert with her emotional rendition of John Lennon’s ‘Woman is the Nigger of the World’,”  says Human Behavior & Relationship Expert and Celebrity Life Coach, Patrick Wanis.

Wanis, who attended the concert in Hollywood Florida was affected. “In our male-dominated society, the song rings true thirty-five years later. We are still threatened by women’s beauty, intelligence and freedom of expression, particularly her sexual expression: 

“We make her paint her face and dance
If she won’t be slave, we say that she don’t love us…” 
John Lennon  

Music, media and fashion are geared primarily towards the pleasure of the man – not the woman e.g. Hip-hop music says that the woman who has numerous sexual partners is a “ho” –whore, but the man who conquers many women is to be idolized as powerful – a stud or pimp. It also promotes the concept that the female is designed to please, serve and satisfy the male. Wanis says despite the movements for female empowerment and freedom, many men still dump their wife or girlfriend for a younger woman:

“We make her bear and raise our children
And then we leave her flat for being a fat old mother hen” – John Lennon
 

“It is time for us to evolve to a level of genuine equality and freedom of self-expression whereby we no longer fear the potential of either gender but embrace it. In my new hypnosis CD “Enjoy Sex –…for Women, I promote to all women a focus on reprogramming the negative conditioning by men surrounding sex and the female body, to release guilt and begin to love yourself and your body.”    

Originally from

Australia, Patrick Wanis, is a Celebrity Life-Coach, Author and an Expert in Human Behavior and Relationships. He is a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Clinical Hypnotherapist with a PhD in Health Psychology in 2007. Wanis is a regular contributor to FOX News. Wanis coaches and works with various celebrities. WGN Chicago and Syndicated TV show, “The Daily Buzz” anointed him “The Woman Expert” and FOX News pronounced him ”A voice for women.” Over four million people have read Wanis’ books in English and Spanish. http://www.patrickwanis.com  

The Great Trickster

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about fear and The Great Trickster.

First, a reminder that I am presenting a phone seminar: “The secret to get what you want” August 21 at 9 PM NY time. The phone seminar is a gift – no cost. It is part of the trainings offered by  www.mlmteleclass.com I will send out a separate email informing you of the how to get on the call.  Now let’s talk about fear – from my book “Get what you want!” available as an eBook or audio book on CD: 

“Fear is the greatest killer of all human potential. Fear is what stops us from even trying to get what we want. Fear stands between us and everything we want out of life.  Fear, though does not exist. Read that sentence again. 

You might be shocked even annoyed by that statement because fear does feel real. (more…)

Revenge or understanding?

Thursday, August 9th, 2007

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about the power of understanding. First, I would like to alert you that I will be presenting a phone seminar on “The secret to get what you want” on August 21 at 9 PM NY time. The phone seminar is a gift – no cost. It is part of the trainings offered by  www.mlmteleclass.com Details in next week’s success newsletter.  

The motion picture, Spider-man 3, explores the themes of revenge, the power of choice, and the dark side that exists within each and every one of us. The movie reveals how destructive revenge can be and how it can consume and overpower us, and that in each moment we always have a choice – we are not forced into acts of revenge or hatred. We can choose a different path.  Throughout the movie, we see the power of revenge taking over each of the characters, Peter Parker for his uncle’s murder, Eddy for the loss of his job, Harry for the death of his father and Sandman/Flint Marko for the people that try to stop him for getting help for his ill daughter. 

In one of the final scenes of the movie, Sandman/Flint Marko confronts Spider-man/Peter Parker and explains his involvement in the murder of Peter Parker’s uncle. Sandman says, I don’t expect you to forgive me but I do want you to understand. As Sandman relates his story – about his desperation to save his sick daughter and how the attempted car robbery turned tragic, Peter’s face softens and demeanor change and he responds with “I also have done bad things.” Peter pauses and then adds, “I forgive you.” The sandman changes into sand and becomes a sandstorm fading into the distance.  (more…)

Are you significant?

Wednesday, August 1st, 2007

 In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about the link between significance, self-esteem and happiness.

 First, I would like to alert you that I will be presenting a phone seminar on “The three secrets to persuasion and influence” August 14 and another phone seminar “The secret to get what you want” on August 21. Details in next week’s success newsletter.

 In one of my past Success Newsletters, I explained that self-esteem is measured by how much you like and accept yourself, how significant you feel and how capable you feel.

 While we have only three physical needs for survival: food, water and shelter, we also have various emotional needs such as love, acceptance, validation, appreciation, affection and significance. I believe significance is one of our key needs. (more…)