Jesse James continues to play the victim claiming he cheated because his father was abusive but Jesse James’ real problem is that he has a low emotional IQ says one relationship expert & therapist .
“Jesse James says he is now deeply sorry, that he wanted to get caught and he threw away a good thing – his marriage to Sandra Bullock but Jesse James has very low emotional intelligence – he has no control over his compulsive desires; he cannot delay gratification and he easily gives into impulses” says Human Behavior & Relationship Expert, Patrick Wanis PhD. “When a person suffers from low emotional intelligence – they are not aware of their emotions, cannot control or manage them and often have no thought or concern about how their behavior affects others. This is Jesse James. He didn’t think about or care about the consequences of his actions – the impact his behavior would have on his wife and his family until it was too late and he began to suffer.”
“But Jesse James is also a narcissist” says Wanis. “Outwardly he is confident but inwardly deeply insecure and promiscuous. Crying out in the ABC interview, ‘I am the most hated man in the world’, reflects a grandiose and overly inflated sense of self. James sabotaged a good thing because he doesn’t subconsciously believe he deserves someone like Sandra Bullock – she’s not in his league and so he went back to his tribe – the people he feels are on his level – the tattooed strippers. Now Jesse James stands confused by his actions yet still playing the victim – claiming he is a S Addict or that it is his abusive father’s fault that Jesse cheated on Sandra. (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the bible of Psychiatry, does not recognize S. Addiction; it’s only recognized by agents, publicists, managers and other celebrity handlers.”)
Wanis says the truth is that “The everyday man recognizes why Jesse James did this and does not try to explain it away with victimhood. What Jesse James suffers from is the need for immediate gratification – classic symptoms of low emotional intelligence; a lack of self-discipline and self-control over his emotions & actions.”
Wanis also adds: “Recent studies also reveal that when men gain power they often think the rules don’t apply to them – Jesse James felt power in his own bike shop and he ignored the rules.”
***** Originally from Australia, Patrick Wanis PhD, is a Celebrity Life-Coach, Author, Expert in Human Behavior and Relationships and a Clinical Hypnotherapist with a PhD in Health Psychology. Wanis has appeared on FOX News, MSNBC, Extra, the Montel Williams Show, Mike and Juliet, Cosmo, Rolling Stone, InTouch Weekly, Dating on Demand, E! TV, Vh1, Date.com, Matchmaker.com, etc. Wanis is the first person ever to do Clinical Hypnotherapy on national television. WGN Chicago and Syndicated TV show, “The Daily Buzz” anointed him “The Woman Expert” and FOX News pronounced him “A voice for women.” Over five million people have read Wanis’ books in English and Spanish. www.patrickwanis.com