The Secret to total freedom and empowerment

May 15th, 2013
secret to total freedom and empowerment

The secret to total freedom and empowerment

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to share the secret to total freedom and self-empowerment.

 

 

First a quick update:

 

 

****  Protecting your children from drugs – Eleven million American adolescents and young adults ages 12-29 need help with drug and alcohol problems. Research and real life studies reveal that parents play the biggest role and are the single most critical factor in determining delinquency, youth violence, and drug abuse; yes, even greater than environmental community factors. Listen to the exclusive interview with Aaron Huey of Fire Mountain Sober Living Boys Home and Fire Mountain Programs: http://patrickwanis.com/RadioInterviews.asp#protectfromdrugs

 

 

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Now, let’s talk about the secret to total freedom and self-empowerment.

 

The dictionary offers various definitions for freedom such as: the absence of necessity, coercion, or constraint in choice or action; liberation from slavery or restraint or from the power of another; independence; unrestricted use.

 

Ultimately, freedom is being able to make your own choices – no one else is able to control you except you.

 

While the word empower has various meanings based on context, it can also mean the ability to control your own destiny.

 

Thus, combined “total freedom” and “self-empowerment” imply that you and only you have power over yourself; no one else but you can control your destiny.

 

Is it truly possible to break the chains of other people’s power over you?

Is it truly possible to become totally independent?

 

Of course, we need other people and we depend on other people for certain things – friendship, love, companionship, community and so forth. And if we are physically ill then we will depend on others for assistance and possibly even for survival.

 

However, what I am about to share with you is a principle and philosophy that one can live by and which offers one extraordinary power and freedom.

 

“It’s better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.” This was the trademark slogan of Emiliano Zapata, a leading figure in the Mexican Revolution which broke out in 1910. Zapata was rebelling against what he believed to be tyranny.

 

Thus, the above phrase is a call to fight for freedom, to stand upright and fight for one’s rights, to not act or live as a slave on one’s knees or to live a life of submission and powerlessness; to not give away control of one’s life to others or to live at the mercy of others.

 

That slogan also has other implications such as believing in yourself and in your own self-worth; not letting others defeat you, or defeating yourself through your own poor or negative attitude.

 

Building onto the above phrase, I teach:

 

When you are willing to lose everything, to give up everything, then and only then are you totally free and only at that point are you free of other people’s control.

 

Look at your life. Which people control you and how do they control you?

 

There are various forms of control such as physical (survival), mental, financial and emotional.

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Facing the truth & avoiding victims

May 8th, 2013
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Facing the truth & avoiding victims

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to reveal the significance of facing the truth of oneself and how to avoid playing the victim.

 

 

First a quick update:

 

 

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****  “Emotional Mojo” – I will be a host with three women on a new TV show geared around self-help, psychology and personal development. The show will be broadcast first run on the Inspiration Network starting in June. Get a sneak preview here: http://youtu.be/zMf5SfZoqOg

 

 

 

Now, let’s talk about the significance of facing the truth of oneself and how to avoid playing the victim.

 

What would happen if you were to accept 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life? How would your life be different?

 

Of course, one cannot argue that we create every single thing in our life. For example, contrary to some of the teachings of New Age leaders and ministers, the victims of natural disasters such as hurricanes, floods, tsunamis and wildfires cannot be blamed or accused of causing or creating those disasters. Teaching people to believe that they create natural disasters does not empower people, but rather, it causes them to engage in self-loathing, guilt and delusion.

 

Excluding natural disasters, what would happen if you were to accept 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life?

 

A new client recently complained that the man she had once briefly dated had turned his female friends against her. She believed that he had made negative comments about her to them and that they believed him.

 

“Are they your friends?”

 

‘No’ she replied.

 

“Does he have that much control over them, considering that they are adults?”

 

‘Yes” she said angrily.

 

“Well, if he can control them, why is their friendship that significant to you?”

 

‘I want them to like me.’

 

“So you are intent on pleasing them and getting their approval, even though they are not your friends. Therefore, they will actually be controlling you.” I said. “Equally significant – is there any truth to what his friends say about you?”

 

She paused and refused to accept that there could be any truth to what these women believed about her.

 

“What would happen if there were any truth to what they say? Would that make you weaker or stronger?”

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Significance of journaling & 7 steps to effective journaling

May 1st, 2013
The significance & benefits of journaling - & steps to effective journaling

The significance & benefits of journaling – & steps to effective journaling

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to reveal the significance of journaling, its link to emotional freedom and 7 steps to effective journaling.

 

First a quick update:

 

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****  “Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique” – Learn about my unique therapeutic tool which helps clients to make radically fast behavioral and emotional changes without reliving trauma and without months or years of talk or emotional or psychological dependence upon the therapist. And if you are a coach, counselor, therapist or practitioner, you can also learn this technique: http://patrickwanis.com/srtt/srtt-st.asp

 

 

Now, let’s talk about the significance of journaling, its link to emotional freedom and 7 steps to effective journaling.

 

“Sometime around 600 BC, one of the Seven Sages inscribed on the Temple of Delphi in Greece the now famous words, “Know thyself.” To know yourself refers to knowing what you want, how you feel, what makes you tick. What are your dreams, your fantasies, your fears, your goals, and your passion? What are your deepest desires? What would you try and do if you had no fear? What moves you and motivates you? What are your fears? What are your issues? What pushes your buttons? What do you most like about yourself and what do you least like about yourself? If you were to write your own epitaph, what would it say? What are the things you want to be remembered for when you leave this world?”-

Soul Mates – Discovering, Sharing & Loving © 2004 http://patrickwanis.com/FindSoulMateLovePerfectMatchBook.asp

 

Self-awareness is a key component of emotional intelligence (the awareness of and ability to manage and control one’s emotions.) And emotional intelligence determines much of our success in relationships. And the success of our relationships determines our happiness and success in almost every area of our life (at home and at the office.) The rise and fall of successful people is often directly tied to the way they treat other people as well as the respect, support & loyalty they get from those other people. (Read my article “Emotional Intelligence”: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/emotional-intelligence/ )

 

Self-awareness creates the opportunity to reflect and make necessary changes. It also helps a person to become clear about what they truly want from life and thus focus on and pursue only what they want.

 

Journaling is one way of gaining self-awareness, developing emotional intelligence and becoming clear about one’s values and goals in life. However, journaling also has many other benefits including enhancing growth and learning.

 

Journaling is not the same as writing a daily diary. The latter is a record of daily experiences, thoughts and reactions to those events.

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The radicalization & alienation of youth

April 24th, 2013
The radicalization and alienation of youth - and the link to terrorism

The radicalization and alienation of youth – and the link to terrorism

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to reveal eight causes of the alienation of youth and its connection to the terrorist bombings in Boston.

 

 

First a quick update:

 

 

****  Stress and its impact on women’s menstruation – Read the interview between myself and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/stress-years-no-period-progesterone/

 

 

 

Now, let’s talk about the eight causes of the alienation of youth and its connection to the terrorist bombings in Boston.

 

Dzhokhar Tsarnaev age 19 is a naturalized American citizen of Chechen origin. He has been charged with the twin bombings that killed 3 people and injured more than 170 during the Boston marathon.

 

Dzhokhar was enrolled as a sophomore at the University of Massachusetts-Dartmouth and his classmates describe him as “normal”, “really nice”, “very charismatic” and someone who made “friends easily.”

 

Those close to him believe it was his older brother Tamerlan, who brainwashed Dzhokhar into committing the act of terrorism.

 

There has been conflicting opinions about whether or not Dzhokhar Tsarnaev should be perceived as a teenage child led astray or as an adult; the legal age for purchasing alcohol and for voting in the US is 21, but the legal age to join the army is 18.

 

Of course, domestic terrorism is not new. In the 1990s, in the US, there were dozens of bombings and arson of abortion clinics. Also adults have been persuaded to commit acts of murder and suicide by various cult leaders. Joseph Kibweteere was the leader of a suicidal cult that splintered from the Roman Catholic Church in Uganda. In March 17, 2000, in a mass murder/suicide, at least 780 people died.)

http://patrickwanis.com/RadioInterviews.asp#guruscultbrainwashing

 

Reverend “Jim” Jones led the cult murder/suicide in 1978 of 909 of his church’s members in Jonestown, Guyana where more than 200 children were murdered – most of them by cyanide poisoning.

 

Nonetheless, as evidenced by the bombings in Boston and numerous acts of terrorism and violence around the world, along with young people who are being ‘groomed’ to carry out ‘terrorist’ attacks, the newest threat in the 21st century is the alienation and radicalization of youth.

 

Alienation is “a condition in social relationships reflected by a low degree of integration or common values and a high degree of distance or isolation between individuals, or between an individual and a group of people in a community or work environment.”

 

I cannot claim to offer all of the reasons youth and someone such as Dzhokhar Tsarnaev would be swayed, persuaded or led to commit acts of terrorism. However, I would like to offer some insights into the causes of youth alienation.

 

I would like to begin with Charles Manson.

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Are you a hero or a coward?

April 17th, 2013
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Are you a hero or a coward? What makes a hero?

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to reveal the psychology of a hero; what makes a hero? Can we all be heroes?

 

First a quick update:

 

****  Stress, hormones and the fountain of youth – Did you know that biologically, we should be able to live to 120 years of age? Read the interview between myself and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care revealing the links between stress, hormones and staying young, and; ways you can safely maintain youthful levels of hormones. http://patrickwanis.com/blog/stress-hormones-fountain-youth/

 

Now, let’s talk about the psychological profile of a hero; what makes a hero? Can we all be heroes?

 

“A retired football player carried a wounded woman from the Boston Marathon finish line. A father who lost both his sons, one in Iraq and one by suicide, rushed to aid the fallen. A veteran turned the shirt off his back into a bandage. A surgeon from Kansas finished the race and then started removing shrapnel from other runners.” – NBC News reporting on the aftermath of two blasts April 15, 2013 that killed three people and wounded at least 176.

 

The above people were described by NBC News as heroes.

 

The dictionary defines a hero as a man of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities.

 

On that day in Boston as referenced above there were numerous, extraordinary examples of the human spirit soaring and triumphing – of humanity rising above evil.

 

There is also a difference between acts of kindness & help during a time of crisis and acts of heroism. Science has identified that empathetic and altruistic actions are driven by ocxytocin – also known as the mother-love-chemical. However, a hero demonstrates concern for other people in need or defends a moral cause while openly knowing that there is a personal risk. In other words, the hero puts himself in danger to help or rescue others and does so without any expectation of a reward.

 

Are we all capable of this action; can we all be heroes?

 

The hero acts contrary to the hard-wired Fight-or-Flight response which is about self-preservation and survival (fighting or fleeing to protect oneself); the hero is willing to give up his own life to save that of another human being.

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Stress, hormones and the fountain of youth

April 17th, 2013
stress, hormones and the fountain of youth

Stress, hormones and the fountain of youth

The following is a transcript of an interview between Patrick Wanis, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert, PhD and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care  revealing the links between stress, hormones and staying young. Patrick Wanis and Dr. Mike also reveal ways you can maintain youthful levels of hormones.

 

Patrick:                      This is Patrick Wanis, celebrity life coach, human behavior and relationship expert, PhD.

 

As part of the series exploring and discovering and looking into the link between emotions and health, we are talking with Dr. Mike Bauerschmidt.

 

Dr. Mike Bauerschmidt is the medical director of Full Potential Healthcare.

 

Please also take a look at the other topics, interviews, and also transcripts of interviews between myself and Dr. Mike Bauerschmidt looking at the link between, particularly anger, anxiety and other negative emotions and your health.  http://Patrickwanis.com/blog/radical-healing-functional-medicine/

 

Today, we’re talking about hormonal health.

 

Dr. Mike, what is a hormone?

 

Dr. Mike:                    Patrick, thanks again for having me on. I really enjoy talking with you and sharing this information.

 

A hormone is basically a chemical substance that’s secreted by your body that has particular actions on what we call the target organs. It depends on what the hormone is and what the target organ is in terms of its effect. As an example, thyroid hormone is secreted by the thyroid gland, but the target organ is basically every other organ in the body because it really helps regulate – it’s sort of the thermostat for your body.

 

Your sex hormones, for women, estrogen and progesterone are secreted primarily by the ovaries but also, to a degree, by the adrenal gland; and in men, of course, the testicles and testosterone.

 

The target organs vary with the effect. But basically, all our cells are affected by an imbalance of our hormones.

 

Patrick:                      Is it true that if we were looking for the fountain of youth, it would be maintaining hormone levels at the same levels as a youth or a young person?

 

Dr. Mike:                    Yes and no. We don’t lose our hormones because we get older. We get older because we lose our hormones. So, to that degree, you’re correct.

 

However, the body of evidence has been primarily with women. As women approach their 40s and early 50s, they go into this period called perimenopause where their periods start to become irregular, they don’t ovulate as frequently or as regularly and that kind of throws their system off.

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Thyroid, excess estrogen and balancing hormones

April 16th, 2013
Thyroid, excess estrogen and balancing hormones

Thyroid, excess estrogen and balancing your hormones

The following is a transcript of an interview between Patrick Wanis, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert, PhD and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care  revealing the links between stress, hormones and staying young. Patrick Wanis and Dr. Mike also reveal Thyroid, excess estrogen and balancing hormones.  For previous part of this transcript (Part 1), click here: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/stress-hormones-fountain-youth/

 

Dr. Mike:                    I see so many people coming in and they say, “I’m tired. My doctors told me my thyroid is fine.” Well, there’s ways to look at the thyroid and there’s ways not to look at the thyroid.

 

There’s a lot of people walking around with functional hypothyroidism. That is, they’re losing their hair, they’re gaining weight, their eyebrows are getting thin. But chemically, according to the lab tests, your thyroid’s “within normal limits.”

 

[0:15:08]

 

Well, I got news for you. Your thyroid’s still whacked. If you’re gaining weight, your hair’s getting thin, your eyebrows are getting thin and you’re cold all the time, you’ve got a thyroid problem, regardless of what the lab says, same thing with hormones.

 

So many women, even in their 20s, they come in and say, “For anywhere from two days to two weeks before my period, I turn into a raving lunatic. I get migraines. My breasts are tender. My flow is irregular. I get angry at the slightest thing. Am I going crazy?”

 

No, you’re not going crazy. You’re just estrogen-dominant. You have too much estrogen for the amount of progesterone your body’s making.

 

Patrick:                      Are you saying that it’s not natural for a woman who’s having a period to experience that intensity of emotions and pain and tenderness?

 

Dr. Mike:                    Absolutely. What is natural or normal about feeling bad?

 

Patrick:                      Well, nothing. But sometimes –

 

Dr. Mike:                    There’s no reason for it.

 

Patrick:                      But aren’t all of those emotions a natural part of the human experience?

 

Dr. Mike:                    Well, yes. But should they be concentrated for two days to two weeks before each and every one of your periods?

 

If somebody cuts you off in traffic, you’re going to get angry. If you find out your significant other has been cheating, you’re going to get angry, you’re going to be sad, and you’re going to be anxious. There’s all kinds of emotions that come in as part of the human experience. But to have them predictably recur on a regular basis? That’s not the normal human experience.

 

Patrick:                      What you’re saying is that –

 

Dr. Mike:                    There’s something physiologically different that’s going on.

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Stress, years without a period & progesterone

April 15th, 2013
Stress, menstrual pain, years without a period, and progesterone

Stress, menstrual pain, years without a period, and progesterone

The following is a transcript of an interview between Patrick Wanis, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert, PhD and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care  revealing the links between stress, hormones and staying young. Patrick Wanis and Dr. Mike also reveal what women who have not had a period in years should do, and they discuss the significance of progesterone  For previous part of this transcript (Part 2), click here: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/thyroid-excess-estrogen-balancing-hormones/

 

 

Dr. Mike:                    I think a lot of women just by fixing their adrenals and reducing their stress, their periods become regular, their symptoms go away, their breasts are no longer tender, they’re not getting menstrual cramps, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

 

Patrick:                      Briefly, what about women who go for a long period and, in some cases, years without a period?

 

 

Dr. Mike:                    They definitely need a 24-hour urine, as well as they need to be looking at the pituitary gland in terms of is your brain telling your ovaries to kick out stuff? Is your brain telling your thyroid — that’s where you look at things like FSH and LH, prolactin, TSH, ACTH. These are all levels of the pituitary part of the brain. The pituitary is part of the brain that secretes what’s called the gonadotropins or the hormones that make your body secrete the other hormones.

 

Patrick:                      In a moment, we’ll take a look at the breakdown of hormones. You talked there about progesterone. Is the level of progesterone critical to the health of both men and women?

 

Dr. Mike:                    Yeah, just like cholesterol is. Look how far up the chart it is. You’re looking at the chart I’m sorry the listeners can’t see this chart. Perhaps you can figure out some way to put it into the  [View and download the chart here: Downloadable Hormonal Chart -PatrickWanis.com - allow time for chart to open - it is printable quality.]

 

Patrick:                      I’ll put it on the blog.

 

Dr. Mike:                    If you look at the very top, it says cholesterol and then, as you go down the pathway, about two down, what pops up? Progesterone.

 

Progesterone, through a few more steps, goes over to aldosterone over on the right hand side of the chart, which is your sodium-potassium balance, it goes down to cortisol and cortisone, which are your stress hormones, and then it goes over to DHEA and androstenedione which are your other sex hormones.

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Stress and sex hormones and dangers of cortisol

April 14th, 2013
Stress and sex hormones and dangers of cortisol

Stress hormones and sex hormones, and the dangers of cortisol

The following is a transcript of an interview between Patrick Wanis, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert, PhD and Dr. Michael Bauerschmidt, Medical Director of Full Potential Health Care  revealing the links between stress, hormones and staying young. Patrick Wanis and Dr. Mike also reveal the differences between stress hormones and sex hormones as well as cortisol and its role and danger.  For previous part of this transcript (Part 3), click here: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/stress-years-no-period-progesterone/

 

 

Patrick:                      So to summarize what we’ve discussed so far, we’re saying that hormonal health is obviously critical to your overall health because the level and the quality of hormones determines the quality of your organs and thus, determines the quality and the function of your entire body.

 

You also talked about the fact that right now based on what science knows, our body can live, depending on the kind of stress we present it with, can live to about 120 years of age. As we get older, it’s harder for us to maintain the levels of hormones that we had in our 20s. The earlier we start, the healthier we can be and we can stay because we can maintain those levels as much as possible.

 

You also talked about the four main stressors, which you abbreviate to an acronym, DEEP – diet, emotions, environment and physical state. You gave us an example of a patient who experiences extraordinary pain leading up to her period and that that’s not natural – that’s an imbalance and usually that’s an imbalance of hormones that might be connected either to her diet, her emotions, her environment, or her physical state.

 

Now, let’s talk for a moment about the difference between the hormones that are stress hormones and the hormones that are sex hormones. You started talking about how pregnenolone can break down into progesterone and then 17-hydroxyprogesterone that then breaks off into the sex hormones or the adrenal corticosteroid hormones. Explain how that works briefly.

 


 

Dr. Mike:                    It’s really quite simple. Your body is kind of like the ultimate triage officer. It sends the things to where they’re needed the most.

 

If your body is under particular stress and you had a lot of stress hormones, that progesterone is going to be hanging on down and shooting right down that cortisol pathway and there’s going to be precious little left over for the sex hormone support.

 

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Here’s the deal, when you’re dealing with the body, we can look to economics as a thing. One of the economic principles is all resources are scarce. That is, there isn’t an infinite supply of everything for anybody. We may experience individually plenty of food, water and air; but collectively, there really isn’t enough going around, otherwise there wouldn’t be any starvation in the world.

 

As this principle works in the human body is that if your body is under constant stress and you need a lot of the stress hormones, it’s going to start shutting down other organ systems that are not immediately involved with your survival. So the hormones tend to take a big whack when you’re under stress, particularly your thyroid will begin to down regulate as you demand more out of your adrenals for adrenal support.

 

Your ovaries may start to shut down because your neurochemistry in your brain or your neurotransmitters are now all in fight-or-flight mode and there isn’t the normal levels of your feel good hormones, like serotonin, dopamine and prolactin, which your body needs in order to keep your hormones balanced. This is why women under stress, whether it’s physical or emotional stress, will start having irregular periods or quit having periods altogether.

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6 Steps to overcoming self-criticism

April 10th, 2013
6 Steps to overcoming self-criticism

6 Steps to overcoming self-criticism

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to reveal 6 ways to overcome self-criticism.

 

 

First a quick update:

 

 

****  Rejection by dads is devastating – From the series “Get Motivated” on the TV show The Daily Buzz, Patrick Wanis PhD reveals how rejection by dad is worse for kids than rejection by mom. Watch the video here http://youtu.be/CbPm6ce6yv8 and read about the 50 year study and how dads affect kids’ self-esteem: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/dads-moms-can-prevent-killings-suicides/  Also read the article about the significance and impact of dads hugging their sons: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/dads-hug-your-sons/ :

 

Now, let’s talk about 6 ways to overcome self-criticism.

 

One of the great contributors to daily stress is our constant thinking and worrying. We are bombarded by stimuli and messages all day long; and for those that can’t turn off their phones, the bombardment and constant thinking can be all night long as well.

 

Additionally, we are also constantly talking to ourselves, and often unconsciously; we have about 60,000 thoughts a day. Those thoughts and messages are labeled as the Inner Chatterbox. This is the voice telling us what we need to be doing and should be doing, what we did wrong, and why we are not good enough or deserving. Read my article “Controlling the Inner Chatterbox”: http://patrickwanis.com/blog/controlling-the-inner-chatterbox/

 

The voice that tells us that we might fail and that we are not worthy is the voice of self-doubt. Read my article “Conquering self-doubt” http://patrickwanis.com/blog/conquering-self-doubt/

 

The voice that criticizes us after the event can be referred to as the Inner Critic.

 

This is the voice that attacks us after we have completed an event or task and it identifies what we did wrong and proceeds to criticize or harshly judge us.

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